What should i do to win this game with my girlfriend?

ok im playing a little game with my girlfriend and i rlly wanna win cuhs the prize is mor lov not as in lov lov but more missing and kissing and hugging....my objectiv is to be with her and not kiss her or hug her or anything and im crazy for those things.... but i can talk to her and her friends which are my friends as well.... if she wins then i wnt get those "love things"....how can i win and control myself to not hug or kiss her for the moment....